Stick with it.

A fairly common “symptom” that doesn’t get enough attention is when an individual’s interests shift frequently.  While this pattern may seem as no big deal, it should be a red flag. It’s wonderful to have lots of hobbies, and enjoy life. I’m not suggesting that a person shouldn’t have plenty of hobbies (if you can afford it). In this case, it might be more telling if you’ve “had” a lot of hobbies.

The problem lies in behavior patterns whereby an individual starts things, and gives up on them after a period of time. This may be due to boredom with activities after the newness wears off. This may be due to "plateauing," or the tendency to give up on activities as they become more challenging, and take more effort to continue to improve. Regardless of the reason, the behavior pattern is a problem preview. While I’m focused on illustrating this issue from the shifting interests in activities, this may also be a pattern repeated in relationships, employment, or often wanting a new vehicle or toy. A similar, and more commonly discussed and recognized symptom is: “Do you have a dozen projects you’ve started, and a dozen projects that are currently not finished?” More than likely, if you answer yes to one, you’ll answer the question yes on both of these issues. 

The common reason this pattern is a problem starts as early as childhood, which is why it is important that parents nudge their children to stick with activities, learn to endure the challenges, and enjoy the accomplishments. While it may be fun to try new things, more successful individuals tend to be extremely skilled at what they do, and greater skill requires greater devotion, energy, and time to gain those skills.  This level of specificity, and proficiency requires overcoming many obstacles, and not giving up when progress starts to be measured in microns rather than miles. For example, a professional musician may have spent thousands of hours practicing, whereas a hobbyist may play for an hour or two once or twice a week. This level of devotion is not necessary for all things, but not enduring the challenge to be highly skilled likely results in getting passed up on promotions, switching careers or jobs, which may result in fewer opportunities and financial resources.  It may also be costly in terms of spending money on the next great idea that never materializes. These individuals are often preyed upon by multilevel marketing companies. They usually spend the money up front to get started, think they’re going to get rich, and give up on it before they even run out of their first round of inventory.  

Anyhow, I could go on about the ways in which this negatively impacts individuals lives, but I think I’ve made my point. Therefore, if this sounds like you, reach out because I would like to work with you.